I say No No No!

For no reason this is "THE", motto of everyone who has dependents depending on them for anything.

Why is that the parents just go ahead and say no, and thats the end of discussion. Let me tell you something parents, it is hella annoying and no kid in the world can understand that this is for their own benefit. No six year old can reason this, and honestly they move on quick, so it doesn't matter uptil a point. Obviously, it is not good to serve evrything on a silver platter for them, but after a certain point do parents even know why they are saying no. Or does it become a regular involutary vocal chord reflex.

After a certain age, they will start understanding, so will it hurt to have discussion and tell them the reason behind that denial. Without even trying to understand their point of view, well, guess what children are people too with their own thoughts and mind. Huh! Thats news. If you never talk to them, make them comfortable with difficult discussions and feelings. Maximum children try to hide from their parents if they mess up, and I wonder why that is, hmm. Because you never made them feel that they can come upto you. Doesn't matter if the reason shameful for you, inability to afford, your irrational fears, or true fear and concerns, bring it on the table. 

Children feel they always have to prove themselves and if they are slacking then they don't deserve your support. Geez! people dont have their shit together and decide to bring more people in the world. I wonder how it works. Just because you want someopne to take care of you when you are old and you want the sense of purpose and fulfilment, to that I say NO.

PS : Do you like the power of changing the course of someoné's life, do you like to be in control, do you want to be the one who is scares everyone and you think you are respected very much, well POWER GAME changes. Just saying.